Questions to Consider Before 'Going Back'

Patricia Evans provides the following for survivors who are unsure:

If you are separated from your loved one and wonder if there is change, please consider the following case. A couple were separated. One person (A) wondered if the other had changed, but realized the other (B) had not because of B's relentless pressure exerted on A to come back. Never once did B ask, "How do you feel? What do you want?" If you are facing this kind of pressure, it might be helpful to ask yourself the following questions. Do you hear,